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		<title>What everyone needs to know about building better boundaries (part 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 16:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know what the 4 kinds of boundaries are? In the previous Boundaries post, I talked about sausages and picket fences. Those are the metaphors Gayle and I developed to help us understand the function of our personal boundaries. Both have as their principle metaphorical function the free, but managed flow of ideas, actions, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Have I Finally Gone too Far?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 18:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It surely feels that way. (Posted by Ron) I’m lost. It’s too late. I doubt that I will be able to recover from this. We were sitting at the Waffle Hut Sunday (yes, if you don’t look too closely at the kitchen it’s possible to eat there.) I looked down and found my cell phone [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why do May December couples need to become boundary experts?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 18:05:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rongayle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good fences make good neighbors. From &#8220;The Mending Wall&#8221; by Robert Frost (Posted by Gayle) One of the first major battles a May December couple is likely to experience is disapproval from friends, family members, co-workers, and the public in general.  (Be sure to read Maya&#8217;s post on marginalization.) In our experience, learning to understand, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>10 Ways to Say &#8220;NO&#8221; Without Ever Using the Word &#8220;NO&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 18:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rongayle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you sound like you are coughing up a hairball or cussing like a sailor when you say the word &#8220;NO?&#8221; (Posted by Gayle) Yesterday Ron posted his third blog on the topic of boundaries.  In it he talks about being able to say the word &#8220;no&#8221; when necessary.  Most of fall us into one [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What everyone needs to know about building better boundaries.  (Part 1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Dec 2010 21:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rongayle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know how to set and nurture your boundaries? This the first installment of a series about boundaries. In it I hope to introduce you to our concept of boundaries. The first thing I did was to ask the internet to help me define boundaries. It’s not as simple as you might think. In [...]]]></description>
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